Eleciously-Me

Hubby's 37th

2012-02-18T21:38:00.001+08:00

It was yet another quiet affair on hubby's 37th birthday. Why do I feel so guilty? Coz he'll never ask for a gift nor an expensive birthday dinner.

Nevertheless, I got him an iPad2 last January. Err...oh wells, we split the cost. The boy was kinda itching on getting his hands on an iPad so the 'gift' came real early.

And I booked a table for us to dine in Straits Kitchen but he declined giving excuses such as 'you can use the $ for something else' - always a classic one from him. So we settled with dining at Causeway Point's Manhattan Fish Market, with the kids. Lovely mudpie btw.

Happy 37th, dear hubby! 😍

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New look

2012-02-18T14:19:00.000+08:00

It has been 3 years since we moved into our crib. When we bought the house from the Poons, we were quite satisfied with its then condition. We didn't do any renovation, only did some minor works to it.

However, over the years our kitchen cabinets under the sink falter with the exposure to water that drips onto it.
Thanks to Ken Lim from SL Home Decor, our kitchen now can never look better with its new cabinets.
Before:

After:

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Michelle's 37th

2012-02-07T22:55:00.001+08:00

Last January, we celebrated Michelle's birthday at Swensen's ION.

The thing that interests all of us was their ice-cream buffet. My favorite was their pancake topped with chewy chocolate with a dash of butter and maple syrup. So yums I had 2 servings!! No picture of it coz it was too yummy and before I can even whip out my iPhone, it all went down my tummy. Hee.

Here's wishing Michelle success in everything she does.

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Lo Hei!

2012-02-07T14:56:00.001+08:00

One of my favorite food during CNY festival besides mandarin oranges, has to be Yusheng! We used to lo hei in the ward during CNY but because it became a taboo (we had an alarming increase no. of patients - very sick mostly; and incident reports to write after lo hei), we stop the tradition of having yusheng entirely.

Therefore, I was more than ecstatic to a pot luck session at Didi's place. Of course, yusheng was the highlight!

Bought a yusheng set from Cold Storage earlier and on the day itself, bought 2 packets of salmon to add into the yusheng.

We had yummy fried mee hoon with chicken nuggets and Sarpino's pizza to go along. Of course, with the usual catch-ups aka gossip session! 😁

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After 18 donkey years

2012-02-07T01:24:00.001+08:00

Joanne, who has relocated to London, is currently here in Singapore to settle her dad's nursing home placement issue.

So we took the opportunity to catch up with each other over a KFC meal, talking about our kid/s and what we have been doing for the past 18 years. Of course, recollecting our teenage years and trying hard to remember the faces of our secondary school friends.

Damn, I can't seem to put the name and face to my class monitor.

L-R: Me, Meilan and Jo.

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All this scratchy business...

2012-02-06T16:19:00.001+08:00

As like any other pregnancies I went through, I am troubled with the pregnancy eczema.

While having Eva I had them on my tum-tum and legs; and with Erwin, I had them on my legs and feet. This time the eczema hit me the worst.

I first had them on my right middle finger. And like a fire it spread to my left breast, neck and left cheek. And then it went to both my arms, elbows and all my fingers. My loins and back thighs were not spared either. I went to seek help from a dermatologist but was only told the usual, "it's a pregnancy thing for you, there's nothing I can do". I left his consultation room with the usual low dose topical steroid, moisturizers and anti-histamines.

Speaking of anti-histamines, they ain't making me sleep. In fact I itch more at night. And with the itch, you know damn well I will scratch till my skin excoriates. Sigh... So after a night of itch, I will wake up feeling sore all over from all the excoriation.

Worse of all, my fingers are affected. And caring for the children - showering them, changing their diapers any situation when I have to come in contact with water will make me weep silently in pain.

May (I literally meant it, as a month) may you come faster...

Insyaallah.

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Third time lucky

2012-02-06T00:09:00.001+08:00

It may be stale news but I feel a need to blog about it just for the records.

It was my last day in Bangkok when I felt a little woozy. Well, by then I have already missed my period for a week.

Waited till exactly 1.5 week and then did a test.

Voila!

I'm pregnant!

Alhamdullilah, God has granted my wish although this one comes a little early. 😜

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SAHM

2012-01-17T09:57:00.001+08:00

This could well be my most fulfilling annual leave ever.

As usual, I didn't go outta town. I spent my one week being a stay-at-home-mom. All my time were solely for my children. And I have never felt so satisfied before. :)

Sent and fetched Eva to and from school. Sometimes if Hubby worked in the pm shift, we'll go for a quiet brekkie after scooting off the little girl to school. Fed the kids breakfast, lunch and dinner. Bathed them. All the simple pleasures of mothering! After Maghrib and dinner, studied with Eva. Bedtime at 10pm but not after a story or two.

Today it's back to work time. Back to juggling as a career woman and a mother. And I can only hope that I have more time like this with my children.

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Eva is Four!

2012-01-09T21:28:00.001+08:00

Happy New Year! Insyaallah, we will continue to receive more blessings from Allah in 2012. I have been delaying this post for a long time. Eva's 4th birthday celebration! We had a celebration for her at Wild Wild Wet a week before 31 December, since our little girl (and boy!) loves water so much!

As requested, we got her a skate scooter as her 4th birthday present. Seen here having a wild time with her present at Woodlands Waterfront!

Eva was also treated to movie 'Alvin & The Chipmunks' courtesy from Amalina.

On the actual day, we had tea at Swensen's and treated her to the Happy Birthday Firehouse ice cream.

And on New Year, she received present from the newly-weds. A Popsicle maker! As you can see, Erwin had a present too. A really belated one. :)

Erwin Walks

2011-12-24T22:15:00.000+08:00

1 year and 4 days later...

Erwin is 1

2011-12-22T03:48:00.005+08:00

On the same day when we witnessed my sister's solemnization, my one and only Prince, Syed Erwin Zikry turned ONE.

Had a simple birthday cake cutting ceremony in Lagun Sari right after my sister's wedding dinner reception.

I clearly remembered the day you came to the world. Right on due date. Short labour of 20 minutes but oh so intense, what with no pain relief.

Thank you for being so well-behaved for the past one year. I love you so much, it's indescribable. And I swear, I'll give you no less (although I ought to admit that I cannot seem to find nice clothes for you, boys' fashion are a bother most of the time!). Promise you a 2-years old birthday party in 2012, Insyaallah.

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My Sister's Married!

2011-12-22T03:21:00.003+08:00

Alhamdullilah all praises to Allah. My beloved sister's wedding went well without any glitch.

Jules, may Allah guide you to be a solehah wife and bless your marriage till Jannah. Insyaallah.

As I blogged, she and her hubby are now honeymooning in Paris and Amsterdam.

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What's Left?

2011-11-18T21:57:00.002+08:00

With that, I've posted most of my overdue blogpost. Phew!

I guess I wouldn't know when I will post my educational trip to Bangkok. For one, I'm too lazy to sort my photos and upload them in Multiply.com.

And that fourth trip to the Singapore Zoo. Maybe, ya'all should just catch up here for pictures of our amazingly fun outing. Seriously, we can never get sick of the Zoo.

I was browsing through my old posts when I realized that I haven't blog about our Malacca road trip back during the June holidays. And to think that December holidays are here already!! All coz Angah hasn't upload photos of the trip. Pfft!

P.S.: My Angah also owe us photos of our outing to the Zoo. I shall give her chance since she's busy with her wedding preparations!

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33

2011-11-18T19:05:00.002+08:00

28 October 2011 I turned 33.

The feeling is great. At 33, I think I have enough achievements to be proud of. Alhamdulillah.

We had dinner at Fairmont Asian Market Cafe. It was supposed to be just me and Hubby, but I decided to bring Eva along. Thankfully, the restaurant didn't charge us for Eva.

It was mainly Indian delicacies at Asian Market Cafe that night, prolly coz it was Deepavali week. Anyway, I had their yummilicious banana prata to fulfill my craving!

Happy birthday to me!

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My Proud Moment

2011-11-17T21:04:00.000+08:00

Well, aside from giving birth to two beautiful cutie pies that is! :)

The late nights meeting deadlines, tripled with stress at work and home, now seems so worthwhile when I hold my Masters in my hands.

I've graduated!! Yeay!

Reliving Childhood

2011-11-16T09:38:00.004+08:00

Ok, not only Blogger.com. What's wrong with BlogPress!? Second attempt.

Met up with primary school friends on one of those Friday nights at Amirah's Grill in Arab St.

It was an impromptu meet-up really. Nazrin just asked a casual question on our group's FB wall one day. "Wanna meet-up on 14/10?" Responses were swift and positive.

It was a great night. Of course. Some of us haven't seen each other for like err...21 years!?

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Awards

2011-11-16T09:10:00.003+08:00

Blogger.com being a bitch lately. I have posted this thrice but failed. This is my fourth attempt. Let's see. A Quality Improvement project I did during my stint in Ward 64 has been receiving lotsa attention.

We won Star Award at SingHealth Quality Convention, Distinguished Award at IQCC in Yokohama, Japan and also won Top 25 Best QI Poster at MOH's Health Quality Improvement Conference. The project appeared in Sunday Times too. :)

Although I am Assistant Leader for the project, I know I did 90% of the project's workload. So I made it all worthwhile by indulging myself with a new pair of Gucci spectacles with the prize money. Woot!

It's all about LINKIN PARK

2011-10-30T20:58:00.003+08:00

Who cares about Formula 1!!?

Me and my girlfriends were way too excited for Linkin Park to start their show.

That night, I confessed my love for Mike Shinoda!

The amazing DUO!

It's rocking with the Linkin Park!

To Blog List

2011-10-06T22:08:00.001+08:00

Actually, I have loads to update on my blog. Before I forget, let me at least map it out:

1) Our win at SingHealth Quality Convention 2011
2) Rockin' with Linkin Park at 2011 Formula 1 Singapore Grand Prix
3) My recent educational trip to Bangkok

Well, I just hope I didn't miss anything else.

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An Aquamarine Experience

2011-09-22T15:24:00.001+08:00

Last Friday, Hubby was in a generous mood. He wanted to treat me to buffet. Ooh I love glorious food!!

Somewhat disappointed that we couldn't get a place in Asian Market Cafe (I love their banana prata lor...), I booked a place for us to dine in AquaMarine, a new talk-about halal buffet joint in town.

I rate the whole dining experience 4.5 out of 5 stars. Love their sashimi much, freshly cut and served when you asked for it. ;) All their crabs were finger-licking good. Fresh too! When dipped with their many choices of sauce yums!! Cooked food were aplenty. I didn't indulge in them too much thou coz I'm afraid of piling up the calories. I'm not a particular fan of desserts but I particularly like their Chocolate Butter Pudding, I purposely soaked it in vanilla sauce.

Didn't take photos of the food as I was busy enjoying them. Stole these pics from Hubby's FB wall.

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Eva Performed

2011-09-08T17:27:00.000+08:00

This is how we found out that Eva has a Hari Raya performance in school. When she broke into dance steps while the car radio played, 'Selamat Hari Raya' song.

This is what happened at the day of the performance. It's really the opposite of Hawthorn's effect. She couldn't perform when we, her parents, were there to watch her. Silly girl gets distracted easily. :)

Salam E'id Mubarak

2011-09-02T12:25:00.001+08:00

Ramadhan came and poof, the holy month left ever so quickly. Hoping Allah accepts my good deeds during the fasting month, Insyaallah.

Here wishing ya'all Selamat Hari Raya!

My first E'id with Erwin!

Unfortunately, Eva was being cranky that day and refused photo-taking. :p Anyway, we managed to take pics with her after much cajoling (cheh de bah...like superstar ehk!) but the pics are in Ana's camera.

I wonder when she'll upload pfft!

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Iftar Date

2011-08-27T10:08:00.001+08:00

Went on an Iftar date with girlfriends from secondary school, of which one of them includes Sarah, my best-friend whom I had a fall-out with for over 9 years (of course, now we've patched things up).

Because all of us were lazy to throng town and for the fact that 3 outa 4 of us stay in Woodlands/Sembawang, we decided to do dinner at Manhattan Fish Market in the newly refurbished Causeway Point.

I had the Chef's Favorite Grilled Catch with coleslaw as side. We shared a mudpie among the 4 of us and it's super duper yums la.

Did a lot of catching up and almost no camwhoring.

Only picture of the night.

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Iftar Date @ Nabins

2011-08-22T03:15:00.001+08:00

The boys' baju kurung were ready and so, it was like 'killing a few birds with one stone'.

Hubby and I took a trip to Arab St last Friday to collect our suits and whilst there, I stop over at Mariam B and bought some lovely shawls, one of which is to wear during E'id.

After we collected our suits from Wendy Tailor, we headed to Nabins at Sultan Gate to break fast.

It was our virgin visit at the well-known restaurant among our friends. Nabins has a very cosy ambience for dining, with seats to suit the Arabia dining experience.

We shared among us the Arabic Platter, which consists of 5 Arab dishes. It was yummy and we were quickly full as there were carbs, such as pita breads and rice, in the platter. Shouldn't have ordered that extra plate of rice.

We also had a seafood salad. I thought it was superb and the best I ever had! The crabmeat and prawns in the salad were huge, btw. Yums!

We wanted to sheesha but I did not reserve dinner with sheesha so wasn't given a courtyard seat. Oh wells, some other times perhaps!

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Location:689D Woodlands Drive 75

Testing

2011-08-12T05:55:00.001+08:00

I was looking for the best app to update my blog through my iPhone and chanced upon BlogPress.

Best in what terms, you may wanna know?

An app which can directly upload photos from my iPhone to my blog.

So let's see whether this works.

Post-note: Woot! It works wonderfully well.

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Location:689D Woodlands Drive 75

The Cranberries Live in Singapore 2011- Dreaming My Dreams

2011-08-08T20:57:00.002+08:00

Because I am always dreaming my dreams...

The Cranberries Live in Singapore 2011 - Tomorrow

2011-08-08T20:12:00.002+08:00

Listen to this track!

An awesomely addictive new single in The Cranberries's upcoming album 'Roses' due for release in January 2012.

The Cranberries Live in Singapore 01/08/11

2011-08-02T14:03:00.004+08:00

I had the most awesome Nurses' Day celebration ever. Last night with The Cranberries Live in Singapore! :) With seats fifth row from the front, the whole experience was crazy!

The band performed all my favorite songs and who knows I recorded 13 out of about 18 (or so) performed songs. Sweet! Should have recorded my all time favorite, Dreaming My Dreams but was kinda put off by the Security who were watching the fans like hawk. But by the time, the band performed Linger, all hell broke loose and out came my iPhone.

Love love love Dolores!

Oh yes, she still sport short hair. Albeit neither spiky nor platinum blonde, she still looks damn good.

See my amazing experience here! :)

And We Left With NONE

2011-07-29T21:08:00.001+08:00

Princess Terrapin died, three days after I discovered it had a growth on its left neck. As any living thing, it was less active days before it passed on.

Pardon this picture of our 'late' pet in its somewhat dirty murky water. I took this picture before cleaning it up. I thought it was of a good angle, where I can see the growth clearly.

So when it died, I showed its lifeless form to Eva, who immediately turned emo and wailed, "I want my turtle!" She even took it to her dreams and woke up a few times wanting her pet.

~~We are still deciding whether to get a new pair of terrapins.~~ We have kinda decided no more terrapins in this house. I can't take death.

Girlfriends' time

2011-07-23T17:27:00.009+08:00

I relish time spent with girlfriends. Time away from the kids and hubby.

6 June 2011, dinner date at Asian Market Cafe at Fairmont Hotel. Easily labelled as our favorite buffet venue, since all of us are sick with Carousel by now. Loves their freshly made banana prata the most. Yummy!

Seen here with Michelle, my best side-kick ever!

15 July 2011, long overdue celebration at Garuda Padang Cuisine at Orchard Central, for attaining the Team Excellence-NIQCC Gold award for a QI project I did with Ward 64 during my stint there. We paid only $220+ for dinner for eight persons. Dishes were yummy, in large portions (although this does not matter as it is a buffet) and in many varieties. I love Garuda Padang's spread so much, I brought hubby and the kids to eat at their Vivo City outlet two days later. Glad that hubby loves it too!

I have two more dinners (maybe three) to look forward to.

And two concerts with my girlfriends. THAT I simply can't wait... 

Our Trip to Universal Studios Singapore

2011-07-19T18:48:00.004+08:00

Apologies for this long overdue post.

The trip to the Universal Studios Singapore was planned a good one month ahead. There were 11 adults, 3 children and another 3 below the age of 4 years old. Had to buy a ticket for my maid ($72 mind you...) just so she can mind Erwin Zikry, whom Hubby insisted to bring along with us to the trip. It's a waste, really, to bring my maid (and the little bubba) along coz Erwin couldn't take any of the rides and of course, my maid (diplomatically) refused to take any too.

All in all, we had lotsa fun. Weather was great. Lotsa things to try. What with the great company and the fact that my sister, Juliana had to be forced to ride on the Battlestar Galactica. She took both the Cylon and Human; and survived them, of course, despite the many tears that rolled down her cheeks afterwards. Hee.

Hubby of course, adamantly refused to take any of the roller coasters. Even the Shrek roller coaster that Eva was not in particular afraid of, Hubby said was too frightening for him. Pfft. I, of course, went ahead on all roller coasters without him.

Bummer, Hubby and I missed the 'Revenge of the Mummy' ride as there were some 'technical difficulties' so called.

Will go again for sure, maybe plan a staycation in Sentosa. Idea!

Click here for pictures of our fun time at USS!!

Minus one

2011-07-18T11:57:00.001+08:00

So, Prince Terrapin has died (I still have not figured out its sex). Hubby chanced upon its dead form, all limbs and head hung loosely out of its shell, on one of his off day. I have already known death is impending for Prince Terrapin. It was less active than the other one, and did not eat much or nothing at all, I think.

Hubby suggested to buy another terrapin but I said no. The death of the terrapin coincided with the period in which my two babies were sick with bronchitis.

New Addition

2011-06-25T22:32:00.003+08:00

To coincide with Eva's school curriculum for the next semester, we got her a pet. Pets actually.

Not sure of their gender thou, so I'll go with the names Eva assigned them.

'Princess Terrapin' is hers.

And 'Prince Terrapin' is her brother's.

In their Turtleland.

Just yesterday, we bought fake rocks for them to bask.

Akan datang!

2011-06-22T16:42:00.001+08:00

JCI is in two more weeks and I'm sure feeling its heat. On-going preparations for audit day is driving me mad, I don't even remember being this stress when I sat for my 'O'.

I'll come back soon with posts about:
1) The family's new addition
2) Our trip to USS
3) Our road trip to Malacca

Ciao!

June already!?

2011-06-03T07:54:00.001+08:00

Wah! Time flies! In a blink of the eyes, June is already here.

Oh wells, I have been very busy at work. What with JCI nearing...one more month to prepare. I am also deputizing my boss as she is now enjoying her 2 1/2 weeks leave. Work is piling. You clear one, it comes back in two-fold. Pfft.

But in the midst of all that, managed to squeeze in a facial at Spa Rael located at Goodwood Park Hotel. Session wasn't totally great or maybe I snoozed throughout the last 30 minutes so I can't really give a good evaluation. But seriously, Amore Spa has better ambience and of course, treatment.

I also managed to squeeze some time for a peaceful dinner with Hubby at Seoul Garden without the children. Seriously, we need some sparks in our marriage. It has all been about the kids and we've been quarreling about silly small stuffs on many occasions.

Now am looking forward to Monday's dinner with Michelle and of course that virgin trip to USS next Sunday.

For now, am just gonna enjoy my weekends off to catch up with my babies, especially Baby Erwin, whom I feel is spending too much time with the maid. My fault. And go buy that pet terrapin for Eva to prepare her for next semester. Or maybe find time to bring her to Night Safari.

Plans plans plans!!

Preparing for E'id

2011-05-26T00:12:00.001+08:00

Ramadan is around the corner, in about 2 more months. I am proud to say that my and Eva's baju kurung for E'id are ready, tailored by my Mom dearest.

And I'm so proud of myself for settling even Hubby's and Baby Erwin's as early as now. Their suits are now with Wendy Tailor which is located in Arab St. A tailor, highly recommended by Ana. Mom thought their charges are a little tad too pricey but then again, Mom always think that everything is overpriced.

Will go back to Wendy in July to send our baju kurungs for Ana's wedding in December.

On the same note, I was commenting to Hubby about how for the VERY first time, he had an expensive suit tailored for E'id. All because we wanted him to wear matching suit with Baby Erwin. 

Been a while heh?

2011-05-15T00:55:00.001+08:00

Hello blogspace! Have not blogged for some time now heh. 

Have been:
1) Super occupied at work
2) Consistently working out either before or after work leaving me spent (that! deserves a separate post )
3) Spending the remaining available time to tutor Eva with her school stuffs, aside from the usual mothering of my two kids.

Ain't complaining thou. I love my life and feel super blessed!

Meant to blog about Ayah's 59th birthday celebration seafood style, which was held at Senibong, JB. Post like this is better with pictures la. But Ana hasn't sent me any pictures from that night of feasting.

We got stuck in a jam for 3 hours right from the city to Senibong itself. Luckily, food was great (and cheap!) and the sea view at night made it even more appetizing. Don't mind going back there again sometime.

One more thing: so much talk in cyberspace about our General Elections 2011 held last Saturday. I am glad that the party I voted for in my GRC won. Love my government la! But seriously, not sure how it will be like in the future, what with all these angry Gen Ys. 

I am an ExplorerKid

2011-05-01T22:30:00.002+08:00

I have always wanted to bring Eva to the ExplorerKid. But going there on our own would mean that Eva will have 'no friend' to play with at the indoor playground. Well, yes, she can always make new friends there. But I'm sure going there with friends she already know would be better.

That is why I jumped at a recent consent form that Eva brought home from school. Eva's first school field trip was to the ExplorerKid!

Eva and her schoolmates all set for a day at the ExplorerKid.

Post-field trip: She didn't mentioned anything interesting about her excursion, only once she re-told of how tall the playgrounds are. Maybe, just maybe...she didn't really enjoy the ExplorerKid as much as I would have expected her to be.

After 112 days

2011-04-10T01:05:00.001+08:00

With the end of my presentation at the SGH 19th Annual Scientific Meeting, my maternity leave is officially over. I will be going back to work (trust me there's already projects waiting for me!) with effect from 11 April.

*sob sob*

I'm so gonna miss my babies. :(

Eva, swan in training

2011-04-06T23:06:00.001+08:00

And it's all about: Poise. Grace. Confidence.

Junior Picasso

2011-03-29T17:53:00.005+08:00

Before the end of Term 1, Teacher Ziza displayed some artworks (finger painting of an ice-cream) done by the nursery kids, onto the notice board outside Eva's classroom. I saw, with dismay, that Eva's artwork did not get a place on the board. Well, any parent silently hope that his/her child does well in everything right...?

So, Hubby and I asked her where is her work? She cleverly, or shall I say innocently, answered, "Mine is ugly!"

I laughed at her oh-so innocent reply. She does not know the meaning of competition (yet!) and maybe that is why she takes little heed in everything she does.

So, I told her, "No wonder la yours is not here. It's ugly eh!?"

And then we showed her, some of her classmates' artwork which got pasted on the board. Obviously because they are nice.

So, I prodded some peer pressure on her and made her promise to take everything seriously. I said, "If you color properly, Teacher will put your artwork on the board, then I can see!"

Deep in my heart, I know my daughter will not fail me.

Today, I beamed with pride as I saw Eva's painting work on display.

I am Ratu Jongras

2011-03-29T12:33:00.001+08:00

I opted for a heavenly good time at Wayan Retreat Balinese Spa last Sunday, ditching the karaoke plans with the cousins since Hubby had to work.

For $98, I had Balinese urut (read as: massage), lulur scrub, yoghurt wrap and a scalp wax treatment done. My girlfriend, Ila opted for a dermapeel facial. I was impressed with Wayan for having a heated massage table that keeps me warm throughout the treatment.

After the spalicious-ly good time, we headed to Vintage Cafe Delicacies at Bussorah St for a pasta lunch. Carbonara for me (it's super duper fatteningly yummy, btw) and aglio chicken for Ila.

On route, I headed to Mariam B again and bought very nice shawls for myself.  They are a tad too pricey and I think, I ain't gonna get anymore shawls for the next three months or so...

Erwin loves his spa time

2011-03-25T22:17:00.000+08:00

I think I gave birth to another water lover.

I feel royale

2011-03-22T18:31:00.001+08:00

It was circa 1998. Nurses' Day has just passed and we were presented with a facial voucher. The spa was located at Kampung Bahru Road. Cannot remember its name, and it's now non-existent.

Decided to give facial a try, my virgin experience. Alas, the experience was more like an insult for me. While picking at my (many) blackheads, whiteheads and what-nots, the beautician was openly "cursing" me for not having a facial routine. She was so impatient and it was like I'm the one who cause her to have gazillion zits to pick before she can knock off from work.

So from then on, whenever I step into a spa, it's always body massages or treatments. Never facial. Coz I really hate to have another woman scrutinizes my face and slaps insults that I lack facial 'hygiene'.

Today was different. I received a free facial treatment worth $280 after signing up a membership with a gym.

The service was wonderful. The beautician explained the purpose of the treatment and detailed out her every step on my face. She was not passing snide remarks about my face and was even sensitive about a scar I 'created' from a recent pimple.

I was given a minty foot wash and massages to my face, shoulder, back and hands thrice throughout the treatment. Ginger and/or green tea served before and after the treatment was excellent. Love the spa's ambience too. Decor was zen with earth tones finishes. I think they can do with higher room temperatures thou.

Enjoyed myself on the whole, will definitely go back there for more treatments. :)

Family Potrait

2011-03-19T22:21:00.002+08:00

Really, this is our first proper family pic...

I am Einstein

2011-03-18T22:02:00.004+08:00

I remember those days when my teacher/s brought me to the Singapore Science Centre for excursions.

I relived those memorable time today with my broods.

Only difference is Science Center has changed so much now.

Check out our inspiring Science moments here!

Rango for holidays

2011-03-16T12:23:00.002+08:00

Term break is here in the form of March school holidays. Wanting to spend meaningful time together with Eva, bearing in mind that date of start-work is nearing, I brought her to the movies.

This time it's Rango.

The show was good but its plot gravitates more for older kids, what with a Western tavern setting. Eva began to fidget halfway through the show, was, i think, a little bit disruptive to other patrons of the cinema and kept on ranting, "I don't want to watch this."

By the way, it has been a long time since I had Long John Silver's, so it's fish and chips for lunch before movie.

Dian Maisarah is 6

2011-03-16T12:00:00.000+08:00

Celebrated Dian Maisarah's 6th birthday at Jurong East Swimming Complex last weekend. She is Cousin Diboo's firstborn.

As you can see, swimming IS the family's favourite past-time. Eva's now tanned skin is the clear evidence.

I wish I can always be a shopaholic

2011-03-12T02:21:00.001+08:00

We could have easily blown our budget this month, why am I not surprised!

Had to get a replacement iPhone as the one I had finally died on me (after Eva pee'd on it last January) and left me iPhone-less for more than 96 hours. Imagine me having the withdrawal symptoms of 'iPhonism'.

Earlier today, bought a new set of sofa. Our 2-years old sofa set is badly torn and tattered. The effect of living in a 8-storey flat which faces the direct sunlight. Determined now, to always draw the curtains, lest the sofa will not last at least five years.

In the evening, we thronged Arab St and as promised, Hubby bought me and Eva fabrics to make baju kurung for E'id.

I'm a happy camper coz while there, I bought a really pretty shawl from a shop called Mariam B at Golden Landmark. Am definitely going back there to buy more of their hijab! 

112 days and counting

2011-03-06T19:34:00.000+08:00

My maternity leave days are numbered. And I have a few things to do before I get my ass to work (as in: 'work my ass off' ;]):

1) Open up a Children Development Account for Baby Erwin.
2) Open up an endowment insurance plan for Baby Erwin.
3) Send my arm candies for a wash.
4) Recover my HDD, which I initially planned not to because I know it will cost a bomb, but no choice... too much work documents in it that I needed.
5) Send the car in for servicing. Another bomb-ly expense because the tyres need changing as well.
6) Get myself new uniforms. I aim to fit into a smaller size uniform by April. ;]

And ya, well... I've been very organized for the past months. Managed to:

1) Join a gym. California Fitness Centre's membership has expired for me.
2) Sent my manuscript for publication. Crossing my fingers for it to be published.
3) Enrolled Eva in at least one enrichment programme.
4) Best of all, I have been very disciplined in teaching Eva her ABCs and 123s; and reading to her a story a day.

of Pool and Coal

2011-03-03T18:24:00.002+08:00

It was an idea of the young ones to have a Chalet-BBQ for our annual department function this time round, as opposed to the buffet dinners we religiously had past years.

So, they cleverly put together a 'committee' to manage the logistics for a fantabulous 3 Chalet-BBQ days for our staff to feast, enjoy ourselves and strengthen the camaraderie among us.

I'm sure Eva enjoyed the water play and BBQ food very much.

For more pictures, click here.

What's With Us Lately

2011-02-26T19:00:00.003+08:00

Haven't been posting our events and outings here lately. Maybe I should do it more religiously. *guilty*

First up is Erwin's full month and Eva's 3rd very belated birthday celebrations which we held at home.

Me with a very fretful Erwin. Poor baby couldn't get a good daytime sleep as the house was constantly filled with noises, up till 9pm.

Us with Eva during cake-cutting. In this pic, she just got scolded from me for boxing her cousin. So, she wasn't very co-operative with the camera.

Next up was swimming on CNY holiday. Rain certainly did not dampened our mood. The kids and parents inclusive, had loads of fun! 

CNY Day 2 was steamboat and BBQ feast for us. Hats off to our beloved Busu (read as: youngest aunt) who managed to put together foodstuff for this day at the very last minute - less than 24 hrs of planning, all because of the brainy event-creator, Cousin Diboo. 

I love this pic of the kids together!

We celebrated Hubby's 36th birthday on the 18th February at Northpoint's Manhattan Fish Market. I felt that it was the simplest birthday celebration ever. Poor Hubby. No pictures coz Erwin was being fretful the entire meal as he wanted to sleep. 

Last Saturday, I attended a lunch gathering for nurses at Ah Yat Seafood Restaurant. Food and yusheng, which were catered for us from an external Muslim vendor, were yucky. There were performances and games were being played. But they were all kinda dingy. Didn't enjoy them at all, thou I enjoyed the company very much. Waiting for Kak Midah to upload the photos in FB.

Last on the list so far, is dinner with the 'Diaper Gang' at Fairmont Hotel's Asian Market Cafe. The food, I tell you, is out of this world. Yums!! Congrats team for completing yet another project.

The 'Diaper Gang' minus Michelle, who had to rush off early to see to her sons' homework.

Oh ya, Erwin's a big boy now, having gone through circumcision. 

Lesson Learnt

2011-02-13T21:04:00.001+08:00

I have never believe in the effectiveness of a naughty corner/chair/room. Even after watching several episodes in which a British nanny, who uses the concept of a naughty room, manages naughty children around Britain (I think the programme is call 'Nanny' right!?).

Not until Eva told me, in school there is a naughty chair her teacher uses, to send misbehaved classmate (it's always this boy named Devaraj) to.

I reckon, prolly I should use this concept at home as well.

So, I designated Erwin's room (whose lights are switched off on most times) as the 'Naughty Room'.

Basically, Eva gets threatened to be placed (or placed, if the situation pushes me to decide as such) in the Naughty Room if she disobeys my order.

As austere as my nick sounds, I'm quite a simple mummy with simple requests. Eat your meal, don't mess up the house and do your assessment books as assigned.

So now, I have an obedient child who is, I can say, afraid to be locked up in the dark Naughty Room, so she follows every of my whims and fancies.



Eva Got Puke On

2011-02-13T17:17:00.001+08:00

This is priceless.

ABCs 123s

2011-02-01T02:02:00.001+08:00

The only downside of doing my Masters for the past two years was not having enough time to teach Eva her alphabets and numbers. Even reading her a book at bedtime was considered a luxury as on most nights, I'm either working my brains off on a paper or too tired, I'll hit the sack the moment I plonked on my bed. So, what little time I have, I used it to bathe her, feed her and play with her (if I have an ounce of energy to). Most of the times, Eva will play with the FDW or her Daddy.

Hubby, I noticed, loves to play art and craft with Eva. It is mostly coloring, drawing or painting. Eva loves these activities. She even pointed out to me an advert of an Arts class and asked for herself to be enrolled in one.

I only have myself to blame when I realize that Eva doesn't recognize her alphabets, what more writing them. Same goes with her numbers. It doesn't help that she just turned 3 and had to join the 4 years old for nursery classes.

And so, I've decided to dedicate what's left of my maternity leave (and my lifetime) to teach Eva her ABCs and 123s. Too bad, she's still too young to attend phonic lessons. That will have to wait till July. I've started her to practice one alphabet a day (or two, depends on how fast she learns or how nice she can write them) and a story at bedtime. No less. Trying to keep in sync with what she learns in school.

Am not a kiasu parent, you see. I just feel pressured. I never want to see Eva lags behind her peers, for I was surprised when my boss told me that her 3 year old granddaughter knows her alphabets and can write her name. Hell, Janae even wrote her grandma a Christmas card last year.

What you know, teaching your own is...SO difficult! She loses her interest after five minutes. She will monkey around or says she's sleepy. Well, she does act like it, complete with yawns and the watery eyes. Studying with Eva requires my ultimate patience, accompanied with threats to throw all her toys (to which she will answer, "throw ah, Daddy will buy for me again") or locking her up in her brother's room. It's difficult to restrain myself from shouting at her to focus and/or hitting her hand with a ruler when she writes ugly. She tries to get her Daddy to support her when she feels like not studying or even gives the pitiful look when she knows she's got no one on her back and had to practice her ABCs.

I'm afraid she could be dyslexic as I see some signs. Or maybe...I'm just being worrisome.

:(

Princess Eva Sofea

2011-01-25T19:15:00.000+08:00

She, one who annoys me as much as put a smile on my face.

Our 4th Year Together

2011-01-05T17:30:00.003+08:00

Hello 2011, and of course goodbye 2010. Just a few words on 2010 - couldn't have felt more blessed than ever.

So here's my first blog entry for 2011.  This entry is long overdue. Our very simple 4th wedding anniversary celebration which happened 3 days before I delivered Erwin.

Didn't expect a 'celebration', albeit mini. But Hubby took the effort to prepare one.

Much has happened over the past months, the usual ups and downs of a marriage. I guess one has to be patient in a relationship. It also helps that I keep myself spiritually sane in order to go through all the challenges of a relationship. Allahualam.

Hubby made me a simple dinner of lamb chops, of which we had at 11pm coz I was on the afternoon shift that day.

And of course the obligatory cake to commemorate our 4th year together.

The Dreadful Confinement

2010-12-23T10:42:00.001+08:00

I shall list down the pantangs that I have to adhere to during my 44 days of confinement. And let me tell you I hate them all, that's why I didn't comply to some...err or most. Btw, I will shortcut it to 30 days. 

Here goes:

1) Bathe ONLY in the morning. While at it, start with your feet first. Your head to be showered last, lest air enters your body. And no shampooing of hair. :( Pffft.

2) 7 days of very stressful (and painful) massage, complete with legs apart over the so-called sauna of hot water and betel leaves to tighten the vagina. ???

Why stressful (and painful)? Coz the makcik urut will roughly man-handle your body, supposedly to release all the air that has entered your body during the delivery.

Can imagine? Nothing like being in a spa.

3) After the massage, makcik urut will bengkung your tummy with that damn blardy long cloth.

I can't breathe, I can't sit, I can't carry my baby... Basically, all I can do is to lie down on my back coz the bengkung is super tight. Worse, it must be used for 24 hrs.

But because I developed contact dermatitis from the bengkung cloth, I negotiated for usage of minimum 6 hrs. When I said contact dermatitis, I really meant it as super red itchy skin with raised bumps after I scratch the area. You know by now, I will scratch any of my body surface that itches right? And I did... So now my tummy and back have discoloured to blackish red from all the scratchings by the end of the massage sessions.

4) Cannot let your hair down, must tie back tightly.

5) Wearing of pilis, some paste you put on your forehead to prevent giddiness.

6) Wearing of param, another kind of paste you put all over your body to close up the pores on your body in order to prevent air from entering your system. I'll not hesitate to kill anyone who force me to use that! It's like WTH!!?

7) When you sleep, cannot hang your legs over the bed/sofa. My parents cannot tell me the rationale for this. Pffft!

8) Must walk S L O W L Y.... This one how to? I'm always known to walk fast.

9) Cannot use my legs to move/take anything, such as grip the towel, which has dropped on the floor, with my toes. Why? Beats me.

10) Cannot shout! It may affect my uterus. Blah!

11) Cannot cut my fingernails (which I did, I don't care!) and hair.

12) Cannot drink in a standing position. Dunno why! And of course, no cold drinks! Urgh! One more thing, cannot drink a lot otherwise my tummy will swell. Haiz.

13) Eat rice with soup. There's a list of things which I can't eat coz they are 'cold' food. I couldn't conjure up the list of 'cold' food coz I turned a deaf ear to it. :)

14) Must keep yourself warm. How? Wear socks and jacket. Even if you're fucking hot.

Will add more if MORE cropped up.

Certificates

2010-12-20T00:04:00.001+08:00

After getting one more Birth Certificate, I am proud to announce that I will be getting yet another Certificate.

No, not another Birth Certificate but a Masters Degree. 

On 13/12/10, I received an email from my Curtin tutor, who congratulated me for passing my final assignment with a Distinction.

Alhamdullilah. All the late nights of hard work and perseverance have paid off.

I'm a Mummy of two and a Masters holder. Praise to Allah.

The Birth Story

2010-12-18T14:22:00.004+08:00

Alhamdullilah, all praises to Allah. I delivered a healthy 3.5 kg baby boy on 10/12/2010, right on EDD at 2134 hrs.

So here's the birth story:

Contractions, albeit irregular, began on 9/12/2010 at around 1400 hrs, as soon as I took that long walk to a meeting venue. When the meeting ended and I went to the loo, I discovered I had the 'show' of bloody mucoid discharges.

Went home on the dot at 1600 hrs and still felt that irregular contractions. I also continue to have the discharges. Prepared my husband about the contractions but didn't tell him about the 'show'.

The next morning, before my shower, I discovered more discharges but contractions remained bearable and irregular at 1 to 2 hrs interval. I told my husband about the 'show' and told him that I wanna have a check at the labour ward.

We reached the labour ward at 0715 hrs, got checked and already expected the doctors to tell me to wait for more regular contractions. Decided to go to work while Hubby waited for me at the ward's lobby. While at work, contractions happened every 1 hr, 30 or 15 mins, and were tolerable.

Went home at 1535 hrs on the dot and while at home, at around 1730 hrs, the contractions were at 15 mins apart and began to get more painful.

Mom and Dad fetched us to 322 and after Maghrib prayers, Dad sent Hubby and me to the hospital.

Reached labour ward at 2000 hrs, and immediately told them my birth plan - epidural as pain management and complete breastfeeding.

I was told the anesthetist will arrive at about 2030 hrs, so I said my prayers and breathed in the 'laughing gas'. The nurse on duty was effective in teaching me how to use the gas correctly. The labour pain was relieved. By then, I was told that I was contracting every 5 mins. The clock ticked till about 2100 hrs and I was told that the anesthetist was held up in a resuscitation. I said more prayers for the epidural to come the soonest.

At 2120 hrs, the contractions got worse. The gas wasn't helping and I felt the tremendous urge to pass motion - and I know that urge is the same urge I will feel when the baby's coming. In between bated breaths, got Hubby to tell the nurse. A Filipino nurse came in, stuck her finger in me and said I'm only 4 cm dilated. Minutes later, the pain was becoming so unbearable. I thought the fingers were still in there but I was told that my water bag has burst and the baby's coming. And my gynae hasn't arrived yet!

So, 10 mins and 4 pushes later, the baby was delivered by the on-call Medical Officer and without epidural.

I cannot explained the pain enough. It was blardy painful!! And I didn't achieved pain-free state after I delivered the baby coz the placenta did not detached from my uterus wall immediately after I delivered my baby as the birth happened too fast. I remained in pain, I thought I was going to die. I was told by my gynae, who arrived shortly after the baby, that I need to go into theatre to have the placenta removed manually. I had to wait, thou coz the theatres were full. I said more prayers while enduring the pain, at the same time continue to stick the gas mask on my face.

About 1.5 hrs later, by God's grace, the placenta detached itself and I delivered it safely.

I still can't believe that I went through the labour ordeal without epidural. It was more of a coincidence. Definitely, I wouldn't be able to do it without the support and encouragement from my Hubby who looked me in the eyes and did the deep breathing exercises together with me. I think he missed the part when baby came out.

Presenting my second-born, my prince -Syed Erwin Zikry Bin Syed Zulkiflee.

My Poor Little Thumb

2010-12-05T02:42:00.005+08:00

It has been an eventful day. Was working the afternoon shift - in fact I just stepped into the office, when Mom called to say that Eva's little thumb got caught in the door. All thanks to my sister, Amal.

Didn't think the situation was that serious, until my Mom said that the neighborhood GP couldn't attend to her and asked my parents to bring Eva to the hospital.

At KKWCH's Children's Emergency, she was sedated as she needed a nail avulsion because her thumbnail was all bruised, and stitches to the nail bed as it was lacerated.

I didn't see the extent of Eva's injury coz her thumb was all covered with blood-soaked gauze when I reached the Children's Emergency but I can only imagine from listening to the treatment rendered to her by the doctor.

A Great Sunday

2010-11-28T22:34:00.004+08:00

Hubby and I brought Eva to the pool today. She has been telling us, on many occasions, that she wants to go swimming.

So, I figured - lest we bring her today, there might not be an opportunity to bring her swimming till probably in end of January - till after my confinement post-delivery. And today was also perfect timing coz Cousin Diboo and family are going swimming too.

Went to Jurong East's swimming complex coz of their great facilities. Fun was the keyword, although the swimming session was abruptly stop by the heavy rain. But it was ok coz the kids already had 3 1/2 hrs of swimming.

Eva did not have much of her adventurous streak today, preferring to stay in the baby pool, in her float. Maybe coz her usual 'kakis' are not around. Eva rounded many laps in the baby pool thou. I'm sure she had lotsa fun. 

After swimming, the three of us went to catch Barney show at United Square.

Shopped at Cotton On Kids while the little bubba caught a nap. Managed to get two printed dresses, a top and a short for Eva. Poor girl has a wardrobe, which looks pretty empty after I packed away all her undersized clothes.

Btw, while at United Square, had yummy yogurt from a shop called 'Sogurt'. Customers can create their own yogurt. Mine cost $8.55, consisting of chocolate and New York cheesecake yogurt, topped with peanuts, raisins, chocolate chips, mangoes and chocolate sauce. Yummilicious! Too bad, no pic of it.

All in all, it has been a great Sunday.

The Big Sister

2010-11-24T00:11:00.003+08:00

Eva Sofea - the one who is gonna be a big sister soon. Wonder whether she truly understands what's coming her way...

She loves her adik, she says. She will rub, kiss and hug my tummy whenever we ask her to sayang her adik.

Reality check - I don't really know.

For one, she has yet to experience having someone to vie with her for attention and love. Even her Nyayi and Yayi, and everybody else in 322, give her undivided attention and love.

God, pls guide me to love both of children fairly.

Due Dates

2010-11-23T01:14:00.002+08:00

I handed up my dissertation earlier this afternoon and boy, how relieved I feel. It's like one BIG burden off my shoulders. Put back all my files in the bookcase and took out a Dan Brown book to read. How nice... 

So, now I'm just waiting for D-Day. That's why I'm called the expecting mother. Very anxious, really. Not sure how this labour is gonna be like. Is it gonna be as pain-free as when I had Eva and am I gonna be safe and free from complications (especially when I pop when my gynae's still in Penang)? God knows how anxious I'm feeling as days tick by. Well, they said one pregnancy is different from the other, likewise labour.

Whatever it is, the discomforts still linger. In addition, I have bruised and itchy lips caused by an allergic reaction from a Maybelline sample lipstick Ana gave me months back; and more itch at the back of my thighs.

Oh when's the baby coming?

The Rantings of a Preg

2010-11-21T08:33:00.002+08:00

Disclaimer: This entry can be disgusting to some.

The discomforts of the last lap of pregnancy, only God knows... 

Already troubled with the itch, now my haemorrhoid is protruding. Not because I am constipated (I had severe constipation while having Eva btw), but due to the pressure of the baby bearing down on me and coupled with having to carry Eva sometimes. I tell you, having a protruding haemorrhoid is no joke! Bloody painful. Tried to push it back into the rectum but it doesn't seem to work. It keeps coming out again. Lignocaine gel is my solace.

In addition to that, I've been having the pregnancy leg cramps ever so often. Had to cry out for Hubby to message my legs whenever the cramps come attacking. Love my Hubby for that.

One more rant - walking is getting damn difficult. Ok I don't walk anymore, I waddle like a penguin.

Haiz, Dr Devendra is out of town from now till the 25/11/10 at 5pm and I have to psycho myself (and the baby) to pop only after he is back. Meantime, I guess I have to tolerate all the discomforts.

But, deep at the bottom of my heart, I know it's all worth it.

The Itch

2010-11-17T02:02:00.002+08:00

Like the pregnancy with Eva, again I have this itchy business going on during this pregnancy. It's so depressing because each time my skin is itchy, I'll scratch and scratch till my skin excoriates. :( It's difficult to control the urge to not to scratch. I can never do it.

At this 37-weeks stage of the pregnancy, I absolutely feel like I can't wait to give birth already. Aside from all the itch, I'm feeling damn uncomfortable. Allahualam. That plus the fact that I've been losing my sleep.

Should I go on early maternity leave? Only if work stops coming my way...

The Babies and The Wardrobes

2010-11-11T21:20:00.002+08:00

Today, Ikea delivered and assembled Eva's new wardrobe, so that she can give up her baby wardrobe to her little brother.

On the same note, baby's clothes have all been washed and neatly packed into the baby's wardrobe. Feeling so satisfied.

Now what's left is to go shop at Mothercare for some essential for baby and me. And that we're going to do this Saturday at Parkway Parade, where I can get 30% discount from Ana's fiance's SIL, who works there.

Savings are happiness.

P.S: 1 week to dissertation due date, 36 weeks now and 4 weeks or less to due date. The excitement, only God knows.

The Thing About PacifierS

2010-11-10T04:43:00.002+08:00

It's past 4am and as usual, I was woken up by the major urge to empty my bladder (which happens every 2 hours in this last lap of pregnancy). Can't seem to get back to sleep, so I decided to do a post about Eva's pacifier...eh no, pacifierS addiction. She had two at any one time, mind you.

As hasty a decision to give Eva the pacifier (because she was a difficult infant, and the only thing that could soothe her, or "shut her up" was the pacifier), my mom suddenly took her off the pacifierS. She said Eva's mouth smelt bad from sucking on the pacifierS 24/7 and decided to throw them away. That and the fact that Eva's main pacifier is badly torn and half of her second pacifier was literally bitten off. She has all her teeth, remember?

Ok, why plural for pacifier and why main and second!? Coz Eva had this preference for not one but two pacifiers - one for her mouth (of course), the other she'll stuck it to her nose for sniffing. The bau masam must have been super shiok, it could put her to sleep within seconds!

Ok, back to mom. Ya, so she threw it away on 8.11.10. Eva couldn't nap that day but I guess she was too tired she fell asleep the moment she was put to bed at night.

Yesterday, Eva took her afternoon nap and ya, went to bed instantaneously at night. Of course, there were on and off questions like,

"Mummy, I want punting!"

and my answer will be,

"Hmmm...have you forgotten, kan Nyayi threw away your punting already? Now your mouth smells so nice!!"

And I can't believe it myself, the little girl will just scoot off and continue doing her stuff. 

So, I'm hoping for more easy days during this weaning stage. But, now that she's pacifierS-less and diaper-less, I can't help but to feel like she's growing up too fast. 

Akan Datang

2010-11-05T11:52:00.002+08:00

My dissertation is due in 14 days time, and I have 35 days to go before my due date.

Although the numbers look a teeny weeny scary, I can't help but to get excited over them.

For one, there'll be no more assignments/exams, no more articles searching, no more literature reviews and no more reports writing of at least 3000 words (except for work-related doc that is!).

Two, the anticipation of becoming a 'mummy' all over, once again. The labour pains, the post-natal blues (yes, I had those), the breast-feeding difficulties coupled with 2 very engorged breasts, the bengkung which I really hate, the wailing of another little human being plus the demands of the girl toddler I have at home and...how can I forget - the sleepless nights!

God bless! 

As scary as these two sound like, I just can't wait.

32 Years and 1 Day Old

2010-10-29T20:53:00.006+08:00

Went on one week leave, not to celebrate my 32nd birthday but to complete my dissertation. Anyhows, forced to free myself up on the 28th to spend time with my loved ones.

Lovely pink roses from the gang in Ward 42, which now sit on top of my shoe closet.

Came along with Incanto Charms, of which I almost buy last weekend. Thank God, I changed my mind and got my hands on one of my all-time favourite, Gucci Rush.

This year, both Hubby and I bought me something from Tiffany & Co. :)

Tiffany Notes necklace from Hubby!

And Tiffany Notes charm bracelet from Me!

And how can I forget the Birks sandals that my sister bought me two months back. :)

Since the little girl cried and behaved as if she felt left out when her Daddy got her Mummy a present, we got her an easel.

2358 hrs 27/10/10

2010-10-28T01:05:00.004+08:00

Hubby brought out my 32nd birthday cake 2 minutes to midnight of 28/10/10 because he's afraid I might find him with his surprise first. :)

Hee, although this cake thingy appears every year at the stroke of midnight of my birthday, this year I wasn't expecting it really.

All About Eva Sofea

2010-10-27T11:19:00.002+08:00

She is my precious, who will always remain special to me. I love you so much, my little darling.

Forcing to Update

2010-10-11T21:45:00.002+08:00

Oh my, this blog deserves some updating. But I'm just too super duper lazy to. Besides, I have been busy at work with so many things on hand.

This pregnancy is indeed difficult. I get tired easily, complete with aches. Especially if I do the morning shifts. The lethargy is extreme. All I want to do on my off days (and after I come home from work) is SLEEP! That explains why my final dissertation is not advancing much.

On the other hand, name for the baby is all set. :)

It's All About Nesting

2010-09-23T23:59:00.002+08:00

Feeling excited and that's coz I'm nesting - a strong desire to organize stuff for the baby.

Tidied up mine and Eva's wardrobes. Doesn't help when I found that only less than a quarter of Eva's stuff can be used for the boy. But it's alright really coz I'm expecting some hand-me-downs from Cousin Diboo and good friend, Didi.

Meantime, I've got ready the list of things to buy for the baby and the shopping will start in November after I hand up my final dissertation. Looking forward to that, as that's always an interesting part when expecting.

Baby Baby!!

2010-09-20T14:24:00.003+08:00

Baby and I are now officially in our third trimester. Come to think of it, only 12 weeks more to go.

My tum-tum (= baby) is definitely getting bigger. Although I can walk real fast at work, when I'm done with work, I will hobble around like a penguin.

I read in WhatToExpect.com that as the baby settles into a delivery position at this time, it will put pressure on the mummy's spine. The mummy will then feel a pain on her buttock which will radiates to her legs. This pain is called the sciatica, as duh...the baby sits on the sciatic nerve found in the buttocks.

And yours truly has been having this pain of sciatica for the past 1 month. I tell you it's one excruciating pain!!

The remedy is of course, the baby has to move away from the sciatic nerve. And if he choose not to, massage will really help in relieving the pain.

Surely, one pregnancy is different from the other as I don't have this while having Eva.

The Raya Mood

2010-09-15T20:22:00.005+08:00

Looking at how far behind my dissertation is, I'm attributing it to the 'Hari Raya' mood. By now, I should have the draft results of my research done up but unfortunately I'm still tidying the methodology portion. I just hope I will able to complete the damn report by 5/11/10!

Ok, still on Hari Raya. It's red theme in our abode this year.

Salam Eid Mubarak!

2010-09-13T21:06:00.003+08:00

One month of Ramadhan passed so fast. Alhamdullilah, I managed to fast for the entire month, although there were much complaints about being tired easily.

Anyhows, I would like to wish you all Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Maaf Zahir dan Batin!

The Wish

2010-08-26T05:43:00.002+08:00

It suddenly dawned upon me, as I was having my pre-dawn meal just now, that I secretly wished for a baby boy before I knew I was pregnant.

And the reason why I wanted a boy in the family was because I have thought it aloud in my heart that I would love to go umrah (or even Haj) with my boy, if God's will.

Oh my, Allah is great for He hears my wish. Masyaallah.

In Need of Updates

2010-08-23T21:46:00.009+08:00

Oh my god, I don't believe I'm updating this blog of mine in the midst of preparing the 15,000 words final project.

Ok here goes. Hopefully, this wouldn't take long. *cross fingers*

Farah got hitched finally and this was a must-attend event.

8 years ago, I broke up with Sarah, my bff from secondary school. We reacquainted when I bumped into her at CP's Banquet. Shared hugs and kisses, cried our hearts out, apologised to each other for all the stupid things said/done and promised to be friends forever. :)

Following that, we organised a mini-reunion with our close secondary school friends. Many couldn't make it, thou. Still, we had fun. Love them all!

With effect 9/8/10, I was transferred back to my 'battle ground' - Ward 42! I'm sad to leave the staff in Ward 64. They have been great, gave me their full support during my 1 year stint there. Psst - I'm definitely NOT gonna miss the BOSS! Pic courtesy of Layla Bella.

Oh ya, how can I forget to add the fact that yours truly is having a BOY!!!! :)

What We Lovingly Did Together

2010-07-18T21:01:00.007+08:00

Brought Eva to Michelle's farewell dinner last Friday. My buddy will be leaving us for 18 months to pursue her Masters in Nursing in NUS. Funny how I only have Eva's picture, enjoying her marshmallow fondue in my handphone.

And, I had one of those cravings after watching Makan Boomz, a food documentary shown on Suria Channel. This time is satay. So, I dragged my loved ones, my sister and her fiance inclusive, to Lau Pa Sat on Saturday night to satisfy my craving.

Fatman Satay at Stall 1, which was featured in Makan Boomz, is not that fantastic afterall. I much prefer Best Satay's gravy at Stall 7 & 8. Too bad, we only ordered Best Satay's BBQ prawns and chicken wings (which was super yummy, btw).

Thereafter, Hubby suggested to feast on D24 durians in Geylang.

"Hmmm...yummy, Mummy!"

And just now, an impromptu decision to visit the Jurong Bird Park. These two really enjoyed the 'Birds n Buddies Show'. Well, me too. :]

For more pictures of us birds-sighting, click here.

Toy Story 3

2010-07-09T20:17:00.002+08:00

Yay, we survived movie for the first time with Eva. She sat still on either of our laps throughout the entire movie. We've been contemplating for the longest time to bring her to the movies as we thought she wouldn't be able to stay focus for long, looking at how active she is.

A Little Princess

2010-07-09T20:13:00.004+08:00

Oh, Eva just loves this princessy dress given by Didi on her 2nd birthday. She wouldn't stop swirling in this dress till at one point of time, she fell and bit her lips while swirling in it.

Wore the dress for Eva on Vinder's ROM day but she wouldn't let us take a pic of her and chose to hide behind me. Spot her, will you!?

Addicted to Play-Doh

2010-07-09T20:01:00.004+08:00

I tell you, I've never been so into any of Eva's toys, like I am with her Play-Doh. ;]

Made some 'breakfast'.

"Hmmm...it looks yummy, Mummy!"

"Lemme try it!"

Ok baby, fun to play with, but not to eat.

Left the Play-Doh for Daddy to have when he comes back from work.

One of Eva's Most Important Milestones - School!!

2010-07-09T19:41:00.005+08:00

*blow dust* Hee.

Eva started pre-nursery school on 28/06/10 from 1 pm to 3 pm. Hubby and I accompanied her for 2 consecutive days; and my beloved Mom - on the first Wednesday and Thursday as we've to return to work. She was left by herself in class on Friday, and wailed the entire 2 hrs.

It's the end of 2 weeks and Eva has been coping well so far. Her teachers told me today that she will cry only during the first 5 mins and participates in class the entire time. We've been buying her presents every other day to reward her for adapting quite well in school. :] Am proud of our little baby.

Day 2. After snack time, doing some colourings. That's Teacher Mira, who's talking to Eva. The guy who's squatting down is Abigail's Dad, the other new girl in class. Teacher Ruby is the one not facing my iPhone.

End of Day 2 before singing the 'Goodbye To You' song.

Lazy Bum

2010-06-24T14:52:00.003+08:00

The first thing I did when I got my hands on my laptop was to fiddle with the blog's design. Hee.

That, and forgetting the fact that I've to run the research data so that Doris can have ample time to prepare her abstract and slides for the upcoming society's presentation.

My Cravings

2010-06-04T21:35:00.002+08:00

Watching the classic movie Ali Setan on Suria channel now. But, kinda distracted.

Well, that's coz I seem to have numerous cravings during this pregnancy. Some have been fulfilled, such as mee siam, mutton soup, durians and many more - there's too many I can't seem to remember now...

These I'm craving for but not yet have:
1) seafood dinner
2) chilli crab (I know that's part of a seafood dish)

After So Long

2010-06-03T19:16:00.005+08:00

Really I'm in no mood to update my blog. But what the heck...it's been nearly two months.

So, this is the news! Although it might not be to some.

Couldn't believe my eyes when I saw the positive sign on the Clearblue pregnancy test kit. Rushed out to the nearest petrol kiosk to get a second kit just to be sure. That explains those two kits.

First trimester was a-ok. Just the usual giddiness, with only one episode of vomitting. I'm now in the second trimester but my appetite has been in its worst. :(

One more thing, don't ask if I want a baby boy this time coz I don't mind another girl in addition to the one in hand (and yes, I'm referring to Eva Sofea who still wants to be babied at all times).

I only pray for a healthy baby. Insyallah.

Chilling Out From Blogging Awhile

2010-04-15T00:08:00.001+08:00

I'm expecting the number of blogposts here to decrease significantly. And that's because there's lots of things to do.

Work and school alike (I initially wrote the list of numerous deadlines I have to meet, but I don't think anyone who reads my blog will appreciate that list!).

Besides, something BIG is happening. And I'm all excited...

Just look out for updates. ;]

What Luck!

2010-04-04T11:09:00.015+08:00

It's been almost 3 weeks since my last update.

Well, there's much to say like about the other day when we revisited the zoo, and the bowling session with the family where we lost big time.

But I'm feeling bummed to say all, so let the pictures do the talking ya.

Now, about the accident I had this morning while on the way to work.

So there's a tree that has fallen on SLE's right most lane before exit to Mandai Avenue and 2 cars in front of me have stopped. So, I stopped too. The 2 cars changed lane and I wanted to follow suit. Within seconds, a Toyota Vios banged me from the back.

My newly washed and waxed Toyota Axio sustained smashed right tail-light and side; and a punctured right back tyre. A huge jam pursuit, thereafter, coz a JB's Honda banged a taxi behind the Vios, who braked when he saw the commotion in front.

The stupidest thing is when the China man who drove the Vios claimed I made a sudden turn into the right most lane from the middle lane. *shows middle finger*

I'm so gonna win this case if I show pictures of the fallen tree and my car's going-to-turn-into-the middle-lane position. *bluek*

Work From Home Sucks Big Time

2010-03-17T11:36:00.006+08:00

It's been a loooong time since I brought home stuffs to do. I've made a pact not to eversince I got married, or specifically after I gave birth to Eva.

But these days I've been bringing home work to do. :(

Because PPA is just around the corner and it's preparation takes much time. And then there's a patient's complaint to settle. :(

I hope this will not be long because I've study committments...like data collection and then analysis and then writing up my 15,000 words report. :(

Cooking Up A Storm

2010-03-10T17:25:00.004+08:00

I shall not elaborate further on what I did on Wednesday to Sunday of my leave, simply because 3/4 of it were spent on general housework, which included usage of the feather duster, rag towel, broom and mop; the laundry and of course, minding the ever-so-cranky toddler I have at home.

What I shall post here are evidences of what I can do, I would call it my innate ability, but always thought I will never do in my entire adulthood.

And can you guess what it is!? Probably, peeps at 322 will get it spot on!

Cooking!

Yes, Elena cooked! I cooked!

Why I said it is my innate ability? Ha, because I always scored distinctions in Home Econs cooking classes during my secondary school days! *prouds*

But me being me - very the undomesticated. So, the talent gets suppressed real deep in. Ha, again!!

Really.

So, I am surprised myself how I was able to whip out dishes, edible enough for the husband and kid to eat during the period when I'm, err...maidless for about 5 days. And when I say edible, I mean no one has diarrhoea after consuming these dishes. ;] I have to add, mind you, that the ratings for my dishes were good. Hee.

So, feast yourself on the pictures I took to show off my culinary skills but don't drool. Wahahaha.

Here is the sambal prawns. Taste a-ok. Lack of onions and belachan.

Thai green curry chicken. Nice when served hot. Yums.

Sambal ikan kembong. Taste just nice, I declare myself an expert at sambal already.

Sambal sardine, inspired by the MIL. The trick is to fry the sardines prior to cooking.

This is classic. We peeps at 322 called it 'nasi goreng kicap'. Brought back all the childhood memories. =]

Cooked porridge for Eva, who was sick last week, to which she said, "Yucks, not nice!" I have to agree with her. I need to learn how to cook yummy porridge.

Sweet and sour prawns. Got this super duper simple recipe from BigOven.com.

I've decided to cook as much as possible during my off days. I kinda love it. I'm even thinking of getting an oven.

My Leave So Far

2010-03-03T14:27:00.010+08:00

Monday -
Hubby took the day off, to accompany us at home, since we have no maid yet. We had brunch at CP's Banquet, where I shared a hotplate beef dish with my girl.

After brunch, we stopped at an art shop to let Eva have a go at creative painting. Indeed, concentration is not her forte. ;]

Eva chose to paint a 'meow'.

Daddy and Mummy had to help clean Eva's 'mess'!

This is how 'nice' it turned out to be!!

I think the posterior part of the cat looks better! Hee.

Tuesday -
Diarrhoea and vomitting started at 0100 hours and lasted till 05ish hours. It was terrible - puking and shitting at the same time.

The next morning, I felt weak in my legs. Had to call my mom to fetch us to 322 in case I collapse at home with Eva around. Eva started vomitting shortly after and I ran a fever once we reached 322. So, Mom decided to bring us to our family doctor. Like pronto!

Hubby was so sweet to cancel all his PTs and rushed home mid-day to accompany us. Rested, took our respectives medicines and voila, I'm fine on Wednesday.

I've ruled out everything we ate. I have a strong feeling it must be the beef dish I had with Eva at Banquet.

Hubby's 35th Affair

2010-02-27T13:37:00.002+08:00

Like promised.

This post is long overdue thou. Happy 35th Birthday, Hubby! =]

Busy February

2010-02-26T23:55:00.001+08:00

Last few weeks of February saw me being at my busiest. I had 6 assignments to complete. I had to make arrangement for a new maid since the current one whose last day is this Sunday, will be gone for good... My planner was jam-packed with meetings, discussions and work deadlines to meet.

But all's well that end's well.

The most satisfying thing is to complete all 6 assignments timely and at the end of it, received a 'well done' compliment from my tutor during the presentation.

So now, I'm officially on a 1-week leave in anticipation of the new maid's arrival, of whom I need to re-train and orientate.

I'm thinking I still have to go back to the hospital sometimes for meetings, but whatever it is, I'm going to spend loads of time with my little girl during my leave. I owe her the time while I struggled with the damn assignmentS!!

P.S: I'll upload Hubby's 35th birthday affair soon.

Something's Up On Valentine's

2010-02-15T08:11:00.007+08:00

In a celebratory mood. But not of Hubby and I spending Valentine's with a candlelit dinner and flowers at the side, of that sort.

Instead, we witnessed the beautiful engagement of my sister. Here are some snapshots of the event, taken from Cousin Firdaus's camera.

Official pictures have to wait.

Her gift for the groom.

Seen here with groom's maternal grandmother, after the sarung cincin (read as: putting on the ring) ceremony.

Posing with gifts from the groom.

Dress-down.

Congratulations to Juliana & Khairudy.

I'm glad my sister finally found the love of her life. I pray their engagement will last till their wedding day. Insyaallah.

The No. 6

2010-02-10T15:19:00.001+08:00

I cannot imagine allowing myself to be in this torture.

I have 6 assignments to complete for this semester. Now, I'm only done with 3. I have to literally struggle with 3 more.

Date due = 26/2/10 for all 6. Wish me luck, please.

Many thanks.

Wedding on Weekend

2010-02-07T12:20:00.004+08:00

I love weekends, particularly if I'm not working. :] Not working over the weekends also means that I'm able to fulfill my families' and friends' invitations to their wedding/engagement/birthday/1-month celebration and what-nots party(ies).

Yesterday, was Olin's wedding. Olin is my cousin's SIL/CIL's youngest sister.

Cool couple opted for bangra dancers instead of the usual hadrah group.

The couple were made to groove some moves with the dancers too.

My girl kinda enjoyed the performance, judging by her keeping still the entire time the dancers were bangra'ing.

Magnet'ized

2010-02-05T19:36:00.012+08:00

"The Magnet Recognition Program® was developed by the American Nurses Credentialing Centre(ANCC) to recognize health care organizations that provide nursing excellence. The program also provides a vehicle for disseminating successful nursing practices and strategies.

Recognizing quality patient care, nursing excellence, and innovations in professional nursing practice, the Magnet Recognition Program provides consumers with the ultimate benchmark to measure the quality of care that they can expect to receive. When U.S. News & World Report publishes its annual showcase of "America's Best Hospitals," being an ANCC Magnet® organization contributes to the total score for quality of inpatient care. ANCC is one of only a few organizations providing outside data to the ranking methodology. In the 2009 listing, 15 of the top 21 (71%) medical centers featured in the prestigious Honor Roll are Magnet-recognized organizations. In the Children's Hospital Honor Roll, 9 of the top 10 (90%) hospitals are ANCC Magnet recognized. (July 20, 2009).

The Magnet Recognition Program is based on quality indicators and standards of nursing practice as defined in the newly revised 3rd edition of the ANA Nursing Administration: Scope & Standards of Practice (2009). The Scope and Standards for Nurse Administrators and other "foundational documents" form the base upon which the Magnet environment is built. The Magnet designation process includes the appraisal of qualitative factors in nursing. These factors, referred to as "Forces of Magnetism" were first identified through research done in 1983.

The full expression of the Forces embodies a professional environment guided by a strong visionary nursing leader who advocates and supports development and excellence in nursing practice. As a natural outcome of this, the program elevates the reputation and standards of the nursing profession."

And most importantly,

"The Commission on Magnet® recognizes 359 healthcare organizations in 44 states and the District of Columbia (only 6% of all healthcare organizations in the US!!!), as well as four international entities; two healthcare organizations in Australia, one in New Zealand, and one in Beirut, Lebanon for their excellence in nursing service."

So, if we pass the Magnet accreditation, SGH will be the first hospital in Asia to be Magnet-recognized. That will speaks volume about the quality of nurses in SGH!

I've learnt 3 Es associated with Magnet.

Excellent Nurse,

Excellent Hospital and,

Excellent Patient Care.

I'm not boasting but we are GOOD. So, do come to SGH if you need to be hospitalized *touches wood*.

The appraisers from the US for the 4 days of site visit in SGH. It ended with a high note, although we will only know the result in 2 to 3 month's time.

With only 10% of my Ward 64 staff.

To learn more about Magnet, click here.

Hey Shorty

2010-01-30T20:52:00.004+08:00

Finally, I found a hairdresser who is more than willing to chop off my long mane.

Goodbye, hair bun.

995 Almost (edited)

2010-01-26T11:18:00.002+08:00

I guess you all know by now that we were so close to losing our house in a fire.

Tsk tsk.

So, yesterday before 8am, my maid turned on the stove to heat up some leftovers. As usual my mum will fetch my maid and Eva at 8am if I'm in the 7am shift. This is to allow Eva to get a little bit more sleep, which would not be the case if I were to send them myself over to 322 at 5.30am.

I'm not sure why my maid was so careless - she left the house that day with the stove on.

My Hubby reached home at 10pm that day, a little bit earlier than me as I chose to chill a bit at 322 after work.

When he stepped into the house, he smelt like something's burning, of which he thought was some Chinese people burning their offerings. He took the air freshener and sprayed around the house. When he reached the kitchen, he saw the stove on and the leftovers were burnt.

The stove was on way before 8am till 10pm. We were fortunate that our stove is not piped with the gas cyclinder kind. Otherwise, it would have exploded and we'll definitely lose this heaven of ours.

Phew.

Went for dinner break with Michelle and she painted a sickening scenario. What if the wind blows off the fire, the gas run freely and then Hubby sprays the house with the air freshener when he come back...he and the house would be blown away!

Damn scary.

And people around me laughed at my estimated gas bill when they heard this story.

Scold my maid? Haiz. I think she's damn remorseful already.